Ah, motherhood! A magical journey filled with sleepless nights, first steps, and countless diaper changes. As a new mama (like myself) here in Charleston, you might feel like you’re navigating a whole new world, especially when it comes to making friends. But fear not! The Lowcountry is brimming with opportunities for you and your little one to meet new pals. All it takes is a bit of confidence and some adventurous spirit!
Where to Go to Meet Other Moms
1. Toddler Story Time: More Than Just Fairy Tales
Charleston’s public libraries offer a wonderful opportunity called Toddler Story Time. Here, tales of adventures, magic, and lessons come alive. Not only do your little ones get an opportunity to engage, but you too can find a friendly face amongst the sea of mamas. Sharing a laugh over your child’s antics during the story, or bonding over a mutual love for a particular children’s book, can be the beginning of a lifelong friendship. So don’t be afraid to comment on how adorable a little one’s outfit is, or say how much you admire another mama’s diaper bag!
“Story Time makes me and my baby more productive and busy every Monday. My baby loves it; aside from having fun, he’s learning at the same time too. Since knowing about this program, my baby and I are so excited every Monday.” — Fay, Johns Island local mom
Story Time at Charleston Public Libraries
*While we make every effort to ensure details are accurate, we recommend double-checking your library location (especially around holidays) on dates and times for the programs listed below.
Baby Story Time (Ages 0-2 years old)
- Baxter-Patrick James Island Library: Wednesdays at 10 AM
- Bees Ferry West Ashley Library: Wednesdays at 10 AM and 10:30 AM
- Hurd/St. Andrews Library: Thursdays at 10:30 AM
- John’s Island Library: Mondays at 10 AM and 11 AM
- Keith Summey North Charleston Library: Tuesdays at 9:30 AM
- Main Library: Mondays at 9:30 AM and 10:30 AM
- Mt. Pleasant Library: Wednesdays at 10:30 AM
- Wando Mt. Pleasant Library: Mondays at 10 AM and 10:30 AM
Toddler Story Time (Ages 2-4 years old)
- Baxter-Patrick James Island Library: Tuesdays at 10 AM
- Bees Ferry West Ashley Library: Thursdays at 10 AM and 10:30 AM
- Dorchester Road Library: Wednesdays at 10:30 AM
- Hurd/St. Andrews Library: Wednesdays at 9:30 AM and 10:30 AM
- John’s Island Library: Tuesdays at 10 AM
- Main Library: Tuesdays at 10:30 AM
- Mt. Pleasant Library: Tuesdays at 10:30 AM
- Wando Mt. Pleasant Library: Wednesdays at 10 AM and 10:30 AM
2. Local Parks: The Playground for Mamas and Toddlers
Charleston is blessed with beautiful parks, perfect for a sunny playdate. Places like West Ashley Park or Waterfront Park in Mount Pleasant are not just playgrounds for the kids but also for mamas. Strike up a conversation with another mama pushing her kiddo on the swing or building sandcastles. You already have something in common: the love for sunshine and, of course, your toddlers. Who knows? Your next coffee date might just be with her!
Playgrounds that are my favorite:
“The Charleston area is a great place for moms to build a network of friends. The area itself is very family-friendly. There are many events every month, especially now with the approaching holiday season. I love to take my toddler to a few different playgrounds every week. There are so many to choose from! We travel throughout the Lowcountry area; our favorites are the Waterfront Memorial Park in Mt Pleasant, Saul Alexander Park in Summerville, and Central Creek Park in Goose Creek. In my experience, I’ve made the most connections with other moms on the playground, exchanging numbers and scheduling play dates.” — Maryrose, Hanahan local mom
Making Friends: A Few Tips to Break the Ice . . .
- Compliment Generously: Everyone loves a genuine compliment. Maybe it’s their child’s outfit or their choice of snacks. It’s a great conversation starter!
- Ask Questions: Be curious about their experiences. This not only shows interest but also helps you gather valuable mama tips.
- Be Open and Authentic: Share your experiences, fears, and joys. Vulnerability can often be the bridge to a deep connection. Just remember to create a non-judgmental environment, so you can open up to new ideas and possible experiences!
In conclusion, as you embrace the roller coaster of first-time motherhood, remember you’re not alone! Many mamas out there are looking for connection, just like you. So put on that brave face, step outside your comfort zone, and dive into the vibrant mama community of Charleston! After all, friendships made during the magic of motherhood are often the ones that last a lifetime!
Don’t forget to check out our nine hyperlocal neighborhood groups where you can connect with other moms in your area!
